So Saturday and Sunday I spent thinking about my freak out. I was really concerned Friday night after I had been "outed" over cocktails. Concerned about my content, etc. Worried that things I have written could somehow adversely affect my husband professionally.
So my husband and I spent the morning after discussing the whys and what's of my blog.
I have given it a lot of thought, and I think I am ok here. I have not said anything that would hurt anyone. Although my brother would not want the world to know he is a pussy when he has a cold. I would also tell him that to his face.
The cheater, I mentioned no names, I spoke with the cheater and he knows my deal. He knows exactly what I think of his actions. I spoke at length with him.
I was worried about the language and I figured this, if people are put off my by foul mouth, they can exit my site.
I know my spelling, grammar, and punctuation are terrible. I will say that is the most embarrassing thing out of all.
I see most of these wives once a year, maybe. There is no information here that is damaging to anyone.
I asked my husband if he thought it could affect his career, he said no.
When he said "no", that was what I needed and wanted to hear. Looks like I got the green light.
I do appreciate everyone's input here. I am going to TRY and keep things as is. Although I am very self conscience now. Although I maintain the right to spell and punctuate like a first grader.
So I have decided to keep writing as I have been. I love it too much to quit.